After a year from the date we visited them in Dublin they came visiting this week.
They were here as part of a re-union for the family of Dr M - with his parents and brothers gathered in Dubai. Despite their busy schedule, we appreciate the two nights they were able to spend at our home. A pleasure and an honour!
The picture below was taken at last night's dinner with Dr M's parents and siblings. Dr M had a wish to have steak for dinner - a yearning due to lack of 'Halal' steak in Dublin.
(At the far end of the table was Dr M partly hidden, KD in white tudung, and facing her was LiL with my 'umrah hair' next to LiL. NAMI and Luqman next to each other at the head table).
Luqman and NAMI
It was so heart warming for all of us to see Luqman and NAMI renewing their friendship which was started in Dublin a year ago - when we were guests at KD's home. As soon as they finished their dinner, which we noticed they had rushed through, they both disappeared from the dining table. We soon found them on the bay of a window overlooking the Ski Dubai.
The young English lady was a spectator to two young hearts in all of their innocence nurturing a friendship separated by distance but renewed by fond memories of yesterdays and shared optimism for tomorrow. I envied the young lady - for I wished I could have witnessed their conversation.
The adults raced away!
We had an exciting time at the Dubai Autodrome this morning - Go Karting away. Dr M and KD were neck to neck, cheek to cheek from start to finish. No, it was not due to others giving way - but simply they were better at taking corners! hehehehe.....and legally too.
But in the end, the guys decided to share the first place podium for a photo pose! That is sportsmanship for you.....
It does not matter where and how friendship begun - what matters is how it ends. And hopefully ours will never end. They were the first people whom LiL and I have extended our invitation to our silver wedding jubilee at the end of this year.
For NAMI and Luqman, may they both find enough reasons to stay good friends.
Distance will get in the way again and again. But for as long as they are able to believe in the magic of twinkling stars - no distance will ever be too far!
Tomorrow we'll say goodbye to KD and her family as they board the plane back to wet and windy Dublin. But in their faraway home - there will always be warmth. For that is what they carry with them anywhere they are. Warmth and love for everyone!
Tomorrow they may be gone- but fond memories will forever stay!
Salam Pak Payne,
ReplyDeletePersahabatan akan berterusan jika kedua2 pihak berusaha untuk mengukuhkannya. Kami mempunyai beberapa kenalan yang dikenali semasa diluar negara, dan kekal hingga sekarang walaupun selepas puluhan tahun. Ia menjadi begitu kerana kedua-dua pihak berusaha merapatkan hubungan terebut.
Tetapi ada juga saudara mara yang hanya kita temui setahun sekali, kerana, hanya satu pihak sahaja yang berusaha untuk merapatkan hubungan tersebut.
Semoga persahatan anda berkekalan selamanya. InsyaAllah.
It seemed like a great getogether. Abe id, do me a favor, write something on 'Raising Our Child'. As a new parent I keep on wondering on whether i'm raising the lil' ones right. Wondering how successful parents do it. What's important and what's not to nurture. I'll keep on wondering. Wanting the best for the children. Probably you can share some views and tips.
ReplyDeleteAaawwww .... so heartwarming especially how Luqman and Nami reconnected :-)
ReplyDeleteThe girl named NAMI, what's her full name?
ReplyDeletesetuju ngan QOTH.... cute la deme tu... :)
ReplyDeleteBestnyer makan2.. kalau i drop by dulu i pun jadi famous mcm tu ke? he he he.. nolah just pulling your leg..
ReplyDeleteSebak pulak baca (terlalu gembira).... everlasting friendship. Seronoknya :)
ReplyDeleteZABS...:-)
ReplyDeleteyes, like they say - "it takes two to tango" dan kedua belah tangan harus bertepuk la kan....fortunately and hopefully we will stay that way...
would very much to meet up with u...either in dubai or KL....isnyAAllah...!
idham
ween....the fact that you are asking question tells me you are already doing it the right way!
ReplyDeleteYou are showing a desire and willingness to improve - to learn from others - which is great and which many young parents like I was once have chosen to do. I think the starting point is not so much abt raising children the right way - it start with creating the right environment / value system at home.
Abg id pun bukan lah expert - cuma nasib kami baik....anak2 pun ikut kata.
nanti lah abg id cuba share our experience. I will do a "wawancara dengan kak LiL" for she has played a wonderful and pivotal role.
IDHam
:-) YEA queen ---so Wonderful!!!
ReplyDeleterasa PENDEK SGT MASA....isnyAAllah ada rezki dapat lah kami brtemu lagi.
Luqman and NAMI got along very well...walaupun this is only the second time they have met.
IDHAM
namiah....:-) the wish of KD ( NAMI's mom ) is to remain as NAMI for now....:)
ReplyDeletesorry....
but i can assure you, she has a very nice name too.
idham
tee..:-) yes yes sweet!!!
ReplyDeleteIDHAM
UMMIE....:-) Next time ke abu dhabi kita buat perancangan bertemu ye..:-)
ReplyDeleteseronok jugak bila anak2 pun boleh get along...
idham
:)rina...sebak ka? kadang2 berita gembira juga boleh menyentuh perasaan kan....
ReplyDeleteidham
arghhhhhhhhhh so cute nye Nami and Luqman!
ReplyDeleteteringat lagi 1st time diorang met.
ohh they're so cute cute cute. their friendship must be so pure.
leeds...:-) aha, dari perjumpaan pertama mereka dan close....
ReplyDeletehappy tgk mereka berkawan.
idham
seronoknya tengok gathering cam ni. the 'young couple' tu.. we adults suka speculate something kan.. macam diorang tengah berdating ke.. really wonder their topic of conversation...heheheee
ReplyDeletewow... dah 25 years ye. Lama tu and you still can write about all the good things about your LiL. Some people dah cari the way out tau. Congrats to you and Lil!
Salam abg id..it is nice to read such dear friendship still DO exist in this crazy world..Friendship without prejudice,without fear..all the way across the globe...even though sometimes we even do not know our own neighbors..so near but yet so far...oops..sorry,teremosi lak!!hehe!
ReplyDeletebtw u hv a GR8 blog!looking forward for ur thoughtful/entertaining entries!
what a wonderful frienship you have..! Pak Idham :-) .. call us you have jakarta on plan...
ReplyDeleteneeza..:-) tu la, suka tgk Luqman and NAMI re-connect and spend time together. KD and I dok plan how to schedule webcam for them ....to keep the firnedship going.
ReplyDeleteMana ada perkahwinan yang tak de dugaan dan cabaran - LiL and I have our ups and downs....hehehehe....we have our share too. but the starting point and the journey is only a mean of getting to where we want to end - to be able to hold hands and graze into each other's eyes on our death beds. To say goodbye, until we meet again in the our final destination - a place called paradise! hehehehe InsyaAllah.
idham
NUR....:-) i think, friendship without expectation membuatkan perjalanannya simple....hehehe...
ReplyDeletethank you for visiting and leaving your comment. please come again. Your latest posting on those wise words of paradox made me think and smile to myself....all of them true!
idham
Nuke..:-) Dulunya saya selalu ke Jakarta. The next time I go there will call you...now I know I have someone there to meet....you too, please let me know when you are here in Dubai.
ReplyDeleteIdham
Abg. Arief..
ReplyDeleteThank you very much for your hospitality, your kindness and warmth welcome in Dubai. I wish it could be longer but you know how it is with work and school.
Anyway, you know you are always welcome here in Dublin. Our house is your house whenever you're here. Jangan ambik hotel ah... Duduk rumah kami ah..Tak le mewah macam hotel tapi at least makan homemade meals.. :)
Missing the warmth of Dubai already.. both friendship and weather
hai K.D....:-)
ReplyDeleteit was a pleasure for kA and I to host you and family - for a stay too short.
your last sms came in after i have already slept....so did not get to wish you von voyage.
please come again.
A Arif.