She is having an Affair!

OMG ! LiL is having an affair.....with a Dato K.

I have been noticing that something was amiss. She has been missing from my sight at certain hours during the nights. This has been going on for the last one month. At first, I thought she left me on my own to give me space to blog and to surf. Then I thought she was knitting to finish the crochet work she has started. But when she keep missing at regular intervals, and always at night I began to have my suspicion.

So for the last two days, I was paying particular attention to make sure she remain by my side after dinner until after bedtime.
"Why don't you write your blog as usual?" At 9pm, she began to feel restless.
"No, I prefer to just spend some quality time with you?" I said, and moved closer to where she was seated.
"But I have a date ....." She said awkwardly.
"Well......what kind of date?" I have my eyes fixed on the super-sports channel.
"A date lah....with my Dato K" she said and added, "I know you don't like him. So why don't you blog or watch the sports channel while I go into the bedroom and spend time with Dato K".
"Errr.....ok, tiba2 jer ada Dato K mana la pulak u nih?"
"oK...Enjoy....see u later" She said and moved to our bedroom.

LiL is not the kind to go astray, nor would she keep any secret from me. So, after five minutes of her being gone, I switched off the TV in the family living room and tip-toed to the bedroom.
There she was comfortably leaning against the headboard of our King-size bed, in deep concentration watching the Plasma which was fixed onto the bedroom wall.
"Eh, mana Dato' K you?" I moved to snuggle next to her.
"Tu ......" She said, pointing with her pouting lips towards the Plasma TV.

When the pin finally dropped and I got to know the Dato' K she was referring to, we had a good laugh. Immediately, I confessed of my own affair with a Mrs B. But she said "Of course I know that. Everyone knows that. It is very obvious you are in love with Mrs B" And we continued laughing!

For the last one month, LiL has developed an addiction to the drama on the Korean KBS channel. Her Dato K came on air every night at 7 to 8 pm, 9 to 10pm and his last visit is at 11-12pm. While my affair with Mrs B seems to be endless, she is always on my mind.

Growing gracefully into the golden age together means having a good laughter at our own silly jokes! I supposed when we are entering into the year when we will be celebrating our silver anniversary ( Nov 2008 ), love for us also means allowing space for our better half ....to pursue his or her own little affairs. We are also lucky since there are also many affairs which we do pursue together......affairs with our own children being at the heart of it all.

"Ok....you continue lah dengan your Dato K....I want to log-on and update my Mrs B. There is a story I want to write about!".
"Hahahaha - I know what you are going to write. It is about this little affair thing isn't it!" She said, but with that little smile on her - a smile which always bring calmness to my sometimes hyper nerves.

Are you having an affair? Do you want to share the initial of your affair with other readers?