Wives are gifted with special 'vibes'...don't play-play~!

I am glad to be of help. Even if helping simply means listening and asking some relevant questions. This morning, a friend shared how she discovered that her husband of ten years was having an affair with another woman. While listening to her story, I come to learn a few lessons about life. There are two in particular, which I derived from one part of the conversation (Via FB), which I wish to share here.

Her story (produced here with her permission), in a few lines:

"i x tau pun dier ader affair

sumer kantoi nyer hal

tuhan tu maha kaya

i ikhlas ngan dier

so semua bukti tu i dpt

dier jenuh dok sorok

i rasa x sedap hati .... sbb tgk dier mcm dah lain

tanya dier of cos la x ngaku kan

then i doa je lah

kalau betul la apa aku sangka ni ya allah tolong la tunjukkan bukti

pooff! satu2 bukti mai

now i have all his pix n sex tape dgn pompuan tu

while he's still married to me!"

The power of a wife's prayer!

"Ya Allah tolong la tunjukkan bukti!"

She had some 'uneasy feeling' that her husband was undergoing some change, and was keeping something from her. She did what she was taught to do, she turned to Allah for help.

Although she didn't like what she found out, she was relieved from the burden of suspicion. God has answered her do'a and she got all the evidence.

She and her (ex)husband ended with a divorce and the ex(husband) did marry the other woman.

A wife's intuition!

"i rasa x sedap hati..."

God creates women with many strengths. One of them is, a gift of intuition. A mother, for instance can 'feel' the feeling of her children. A wife, can 'feel' if her husband is cheating on her. The difference is, some wives would investigate, and others choose to ignore the 'vibes'. But, 'vibes' they do have...~!

As an additonal resource to readers, I pasted below what I found on a website.

Cheating Husband - Facts and Advice

Listed below are the most common findings about cheating husbands.

• Men are more likely than women to cheat. It is estimated that close to 50% of all men will cheat at some point in their lives.

• Husbands are also more likely to engage in online cheating – using chat rooms, webcams and online services to arrange sexual encounters

• The more money a husband makes, the more likely he is to be unfaithful. Having more money brings more opportunity and wealth tends to attract more women.

• A lack of sexual excitement or the routine of having sex with the same person often leads men to stray. Men are more likely to be drawn to the thrill of having sex with someone new (also see, Coolidge Effect).

• Husbands are less likely than wives to consider leaving their spouse when having an affair (see, will he leave his wife)

• A cheating husband is more likely to have an affair with someone who is younger than his wife.

• When having a one-night stand, men are less choosy than women when it comes to selecting someone to have sex with.

• Husbands are more likely to feel that cheating is justified due to the lack of sex within a marriage.

• Husbands are much more likely than wives to be serial cheaters (also see, husband constantly cheats and cheating husband survey)