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Sunday, September 21, 2008

Sakit!!

My fever reached 40 degree high. Medicine brought the temperature down. But bacteria has also infected my tonsil. To fight the bacteria my brain produced somekind of signals for my body temperature to shoot up again. This morning, the thermometer read 39 degree. Since last night I could not swallow. It was so painful.....even a sip of water brought involuntary jerking reaction from my whole body.
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This morning I went to see a E.N.T specialist.
He took a peep into my throat, and mumbled some medical jargons to his nurse.
Then he took a swab of the infected area - for microbiological testing. I supposed he wanted to ascertain what type of bacteria was nesting on my tonsil to have caused such degree of inflamation.
The nurse also took my blood sample - to test for CBC, whatever that means. Later I asked the girl who took the sample, and she said, "To check for any infection in your blood".
Ermmm.....
I waited patiently for the results of the tests. After one hour, the doctor called me in again. This time he told me the infection is very serious. He wanted to admit me for IV! Instantly I asked to rest at home instead. The thought of being hospitalized during this Ramadan month was not so appealing - what more with LiL not able to drive. He agreed but with a strict order, "Don't leave home!"
I am on a house arrest!
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The next appointment is on Tuesday. By that time, the result of the microbiological test will be known. But hopefully, a bagfull of medicine he prescribed today would have cured me.
The pain has been unbearable. However a friend reminded me via a text message,

"Moga cepat sembuh. Untung jadi seorang Mukmin. Kata Nabi, bila d uji dapat
pahala ( dia sabar ), dan bila d beri nikmat juga dapat pahala ( dia bersyukur ). Sakit ini juga ada hikmahnya. Sebagai ujian atau kafarah ( penghapus dosa yg
lalu, yg tidak akan d kira lagi di akhirat ). Mmg untungnya mereka yg d timpa
sakit dan tahu hikmahnya."

Malam ini aku bersyukur kepada Allah kerana memberi aku sakit....dan memberi aku ingatan betapa nikmatnya sihat. Walaupun sakit bukan kepalang, sungguh nikmat sekali bila dapat menelan sesudu nasi bubur yang disediakan isteri. To the two friends who came visiting tonight to cheer me up - "Thank You!!"
Terasa macam ada yang masih sayang...hehehehe.

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Penutup Bazaar Ramadan



Gambar2 dari lensa Din.di sini







Assalamualaikum wbt...
Dengan sempurnanya Bazaar Ramadan ke 3 pada hari Jumaat 19/09, berahirlah siri Bazaar Ramadan tahun ini di Dubai. Untuk tiga minggu, Malaysians di UAE sempat merasai satu suasana perkampungan warga Malaysian di rantau ini ; membeli juadah dan bertemu rakan2 dalam suasana Muhibbah dan persaudaraan.
Bagi pihak penganjur, saya ingin mengucapkan ribuan terimakasih kepada semua pengusaha2 gerai dari minggu pertama hingga minggu penamat semalam. Saya tahu anda berbuat demikian bukan di dorong untuk mencari keuntungan sebaliknya lebih kepada niat untuk menyumbang kepada warga Malaysian dan memeriahkan suasana. Thank You!!
Kepada pengunjung2 semua - tanpa sokongan anda Bazaar Ramadan yang kita sedia kan tidak bermakna. Saya tahu anda membeli tanpa mengira sangat tentang harga. Semuanya di lakukan atas semangat setia kawan. Terimakasih dari kami!!!

Tuan Consul General di Dubai, Tuan Syed Mohd Hasrin, memainkan peranan penting dengan galakan, sokongan dan kesudian beliau mengizinkan premis kediaman sebagai tapak Bazaar. Bagi pihak seluruh warga Malaysian di UAE, saya mengucapkan jutaan terimakasih! !!

Tak lupa juga kepada jurukamera2 sukarela, yang setiap minggu tidak pernah jemu berkongsikan gambar2 yang diambil. Gambar2 rakaman suasana telah memeriahkan lagi dan memberi promosi yang baik. Saya mengucapkan terimakasih juga kepada sdr Muin dari BERNAMA kerana membuat liputan Bazaar Ramadan ini.

Penyediaan kemudahan membayar zakat fitrah di lokasi Bazaar semalam mendapat sambutan baik. Kutipan melebihi AED7000.00 telah berjaya di kumpulkan, bermakna ramai di antara kita telah menunaikan satu lagi fardu yang di tuntut!!

Alhamdullilllah.Untuk makluman, Solat Raya anjuran pihak Consul General akan di adakan di foyer MATRADE pada jam 8.30am. Juadah tidak di sediakan.... tetapi jika ada yang ingin membawa sendiri, itu di alu2kan. Kepada yang belum kesempatan membayar zakat fitrah masih boleh melakukannya di hari tersebut sebelum solat Raya bermula.Rumah terbuka di kediaman rasmi Tuan Consul General akan di adakan selepas minggu pertama. Tarikh sebenar akan di maklumkan melalui ruang ini bila di ketahui.

Kesempatan ini juga saya sebagai penganjur, memohon ampun maaf jika ada salah silap terkasar bahasa dan apa jua bentuk kekurangan dalam usaha saya ini.Di lain waktu, di lain majlis kita berjumpa lagi, InsyAAllah.


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Friday, September 19, 2008

Career Planning - my story!

Sudah agak lama saya tidak menulis mengenai a HR topic. HR =Human Resource. And I am a HR pratitioner. I started my career as an Engineer in 1983. However, from year one I wanted to be a HR Leader. I walked into the office of the Director of HR at my first place of employment and asked him what does it take to be a HR Director like him. I was 26 years old. Alhamdullilah, I achieved my ambition when I was 36, and was also the youngest member of the Board for the company.
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My boss, the Chairman of the company said this to me when he broke the news of my promotion, "You don't look excited?"
I replied, "With this comes responsibilities, and I am thinking on how to give my best to you and the company!"
Then I added, " I am also thinking about my next career move!"
To which he said, "Yes, you have come far....and I am sure now you can see further. Find the destination you want to be....and work on it like you have been doing!".
That said.....! I was ready to move on.


I moved to another company in search for fresh challenges and opportunities to work on global stage. That was my next ambition - to be an International player.
Alhamdullillah, by age 44 I became an expats with a reputable Anglo-Dutch company. I have since travelled on business to more than 45 countries. I have held senior positions responsible for two separate regions; Asia and Middle East & North Africa. I have lived in three different countries outside of Malaysia.


In this entry, I want to share my own experience of climbing corporate ladder. Hopefully, it can be of help to a few of my readers.


1. Step one is to know Your Interest
- I was an engineer, having graduated with a technical degree. However my interest has been humanity and working with people. My values include to give something to others; helping them and making them happy.
- I strongly suggest everyone to dive into your value system. What makes you happy? What do you want your legacy to be?
- A famous quote, "If you do somethingyou really enjoy doing - you do not have to work another day!".
2. Know you strength
- I realize that I was good with people. Emphaty comes naturally to me. I am also perceptive and cosiderate. I am a good listener. And I am considerd helpful by others. My personality makes people find me approachable. I am also analytical, and have a passion for action and results.
I have a flair for creativity. In short, I know my strentgh - creative, people insights, and relationship building.
- What are your strengths. Be comfortable in talking about them. Seek feedback from others. Verify your own perception of self. Do others see you the same way you see yourself. What is it that others know about you which you don't know. Find out, pause and reflect.
- Leverage on your strength. Find a career which make use of your strength. Change course if necessary. Your climb will be faster, if you find an area which uses your notable strength rather than trying to improve areas of your weaknesses.
3. Know your weaknesses
- I am not good with details, neither am I interested. I prefer the big picture and concepts. It does not mean that I can't write an engineering paper, I can and did. But it was not my area of natural strength. Why force it? A squre peg is not meant for a round hole!
- My point about knowing your weaknesses is to avoid falling into the trap of trying to improve them. I do not believe in being an all rounder or jack of all trade and master of none. I believe in being a master in a few areas where you are naturally strong.
- If you must go for training, choose subjects where you are strong and be even stronger. Be the best you can be. Be world class! Afterall, Tiger woods never pretended to be Pele!
4. Know what you want to be
- I was specific. I wanted to be the HR Director, and within ten years.
- You too need to take destiny into your own hands. Be very specific of what you want to be. Visualize a clear picture of what that 'position' looks and feels like.
- If you are now a project manager, and you want to be a CEO of a company. Visualize the 'CEO' you; what will your office looks like, who works for you, what car will you drive, and what will make you successful. Be very clear in your own mind. Be even clearer on 'why' do you want to be a CEO. That will bring you down to your own values. Even, take time to describe your vision to your spouse. Add, modify that picture as you gather more information and has become clearer. Make it your dreams; in waking and sleeping time. Be paranoid about it.
5. You need luck, but you also need planning !
- I spent three years as an engineer, with a six months secondment to the HQ in Dallas Texas. I collected sufficient brownie points as an engineer to earn a promotion. Then I spend four years in the operations as one of the unit heads. This gave me management experience. When I graduated with a post graduate diploma in HR management ( part time studies ), the management saw how serious I was in pursuing my ambition. I studied HR formally to have a good foundation of knowledge to support my ambition.
- I asked the HR Director to mentor and coach me as a manager. In doing so, not only did I learn from him, but I also build relationship with him. I 'exposed' myself to one of the key decision makers as far as my career was concerned.
- I kept reminding my boss and the HRD of my ambition to be in HR. When there was a vacancy, I was offered a lateral move and was appointed one of the HR section managers. I flew with the opportunity and got myself ready to be a strong candidate for a HR Director, within the firm but also in the open employment market.
- I had both technical experience and management experience, and had sufficient track records of leadership and delivery.
- I suggest that you focus on getting both TECHNICAL ( Skills ) and Management ( Leading team, planning and controls ) experiences. Have both depth and breadth in your experience portfolio.
- Involving key decision makers in your career planning is essential. Make them partly responsible for your development. I use pro-active words here instead of waiting for things to come to you or waiting for invitations to arrive. Go get them! You need their help.
7. Career Milestones

I consider the following as significant milestones in my career.
- Moving from Technical to Management.
- Completed my post graduate diploma to support my declaration of ambition.
- Zig Zagging my way up between Operational roles and Corporate or Head Office roles.
- To leave my first company and join another - different culture, different vision and values, different opportunities, all of which only made me a better professional.
- To have stayed long enough in a role but not to long! My tenure in any role has been between 3 to 5 years. Long enough to have left some legacy behind and not too long to be a blocker to others and to be complacent.
- Have your own career milestones. Plan for them and go achieve them.

8. Involve your spouse / family in decision

- At everystep, along the way I involved my wife and my children in decisions. They need to be just as excited as me in moving to new places. Plan for schools, housing, circle of friends and social activities together.
- Each person need to know and feel the benefit for them - from the move! And this is up to you !
9. Keep at it! Don't give up.
-There were challenges along the way. Office politics which try to make your life miserable. Bosses which do not share the same values as you. Colleagues who back-stabs. Lots more.
-The important this is to have your eyes on your destinations, and take the opportunity with ever obstacles to renew your resolve to get there.
-Build allies, and beievers. You need people who support you and speak well of you. You can't walk alone, not in a corporate world.
- Be prepared to take one step back, if that will enable you to move three steps forward.
- Be true to your values. Do not sell your soul for the sake of your career. Make your conscience and principles your best allies.

10. Pray!
-As much and as often as possible, pray! Believe in your heart, "Allah Kareem".

ps: To the person who requested me to write something about career, I apologize for what I have written here falls short of your expectation.
---catch up with the Bazaar Ramadan update here.

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Movies....

Believe it or not, I don't normally watch TV. I find it hard work to sit down as a passive spectator. But I enjoy going to movies, especially with my children. The experience is something else.......from queueing for pop-corns to post-movie reviews.
I really like the creativity of film producers in choosing movie titles. They tell stories through titles!
Maybe I too can tell my story by putting a few movies together.

Movie "Anger Management" - is one of my favourite!
There are, Jack Nicholson informs Adam Sandler in Anger Management, two kinds of angry people: Those who explode, directing their rage outwards, and those who implode, storing up resentment until one day they gun down everyone in their office.

It does not matter which type you are - Anger is bad for you and for others around you! But between the two types, and if you must get angry - then be the one who can contain and swallow your own anger. The type who explode......may God bless their neighbours! I for one would not want to land within a shouting distance. Again, this modern day stressful life has created more angry people.

I am also reminded of this Joan Collins movie - The Bitch! This flick brings the sexy and voluptious Joan Collins in her best natural role. However, I must admit, I have seen worse Bitches in real life!
I think, many would want to say the title of this movie below, "Straight to Hell" to all Bitches out there who can make life more miserable than necessary to most of us.

One ever green romantics movie is 'Sleepless in Seattle'. Even what is supposed to be full of romance can be a horrifying experience. I supposed, the psychological wellness of one's spouse defines whether one's is a blissful romance or a journey through hell. Since I am in Dubai, my mind skips away into homes of Dubai - and I wonder how many couples are having sleepless nights in Dubai! Watch the video!

Saturday, September 13, 2008

Bazaar Ramadan ke 2 - 12.09

Jalan yang selalunya lengang menjadi sibuk...Malaysians in UAE serbu Bazaar Ramadan!! Di bawah, Encik Muin from BARNAMA, Tuan CG, Tuan Syed Mohd Hasrin, dan Encik Abd Halim !

Imran, girl paling comel Dina, Ikmal - pic from abd halim.

above, Ketibaan Mrs Fnd and below Mr Fnd - jualan mereka mertabak, ayam percik dan karipap habis dalam 40 minit!! -pic fom abd halim
Below: me and my good friend encik Osman visiting from KL ! Terkejut dia dgn panas dan bazaar ramadan ala2 kg baru ada di Dubai....
Wan Julia berskaf merah melayan pelanggan, pic from abd halim
Puan F maybe calling her beloved husband to come help carry what she has bought! - pic from abd halim
meriah suasana tua muda semua ada! pic from abd halim
haziq, luqman pegang kotak duit, angah melayan pelanggan, amirul mengira duit! four from ranches...bonda berehat setelah memasak, ayahanda pula meronda2...

Event: Bazaar Ramadan kedua di Dubai on 12th September.
Modal: Ingredients paid for by urs truly, hard work at the kitchen with lots of motherly love by LiL, enthusiastic help from Luqman, Haziq, Amirul and Angah!
Menu: Asam pedas, kuih muih.
Profit Benefits : Lots of fun and joy being part of a small community of Malaysians preparing foods for Malaysians - home away from home!
Time together with childen doing something we don't normally do - Buat Business!!
For a brief moments my childen appreciated how difficult it is to earn money!
Last night, post the Bazaar Ramadan and while driving to a supermarket, I asked my children what they thought of the day's venture?
Their replies....

Luqman, "It was fun! I want to do it again....but, not during hot day like today!"

Amirul, "Quite embarassing when there was no customers....but was very happy when almost everything was sold in the end."

Haziq, "Too much hard work!! I prefer to be a photographer!"

Angah, "Penat tapi seronok!!"

They did well, not only at the stall but also at home by helping with the preparation.

Our deal was that they got to keep the profits....as it turned out, I hope they will keep the exprience and the joy of it all. There were not much financial gain at all...hehehe!

But at the supermarket last night, I did reward them with Baskin Robin ice-cream!

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sempat berposing dengan Mr Fnd! The cowboy hat is very functional in the summer heat! Baju sama biru, menu lain2! hehehe.pic from Din.

The second Bazaar was as Meriah as the first one. There were definitely more stalls and also more foods! Malaysians did not just visited the Bazaar for foods but also for meeting and catching up with friends. Many were seen mixing and socializing long after the buying were done. As one of the organizers, it was satisfying to see happiness on peoples' faces.
please also read the story told by Imeirda, here.
Pictures tell more accurate stories than words.....

Banyak lagi gambar dari lensa imran di sini, dan dari abdul halim di sini.
Dari Din pula di sini
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Bazaar Ramadan ke 2 di Dubai - 12.09

Jalan yang selalunya lengang menjadi sibuk...Malaysians in UAE serbu Bazaar Ramadan!! Di bawah, Encik Muin from BARNAMA, Tuan CG, Tuan Syed Mohd Hasrin, dan Encik Abd Halim !
Imran, girl paling comel Dina, Ikmal - pic from abd halim.

above, Ketibaan Mrs Fnd and below Mr Fnd - jualan mereka mertabak, ayam percik dan karipap habis dalam 40 minit!! -pic fom abd halim
Below: me and my good friend encik Osman visiting from KL ! Terkejut dia dgn panas dan bazaar ramadan ala2 kg baru ada di Dubai....
Wan Julia berskaf merah melayan pelanggan, pic from abd halim
Puan F maybe calling her beloved husband to come help carry what she has bought! - pic from abd halim
meriah suasana tua muda semua ada! pic from abd halim
haziq, luqman pegang kotak duit, angah melayan pelanggan, amirul mengira duit! four from ranches...bonda berehat setelah memasak, ayahanda pula meronda2...

Event: Bazaar Ramadan kedua di Dubai on 12th September.
Modal: Ingredients paid for by urs truly, hard work at the kitchen with lots of motherly love by LiL, enthusiastic help from Luqman, Haziq, Amirul and Angah!
Menu: Asam pedas, kuih muih.
Profit Benefits : Lots of fun and joy being part of a small community of Malaysians preparing foods for Malaysians - home away from home!
Time together with childen doing something we don't normally do - Buat Business!!
For a brief moments my childen appreciated how difficult it is to earn money!
Last night, post the Bazaar Ramadan and while driving to a supermarket, I asked my children what they thought of the day's venture?
Their replies....

Luqman, "It was fun! I want to do it again....but, not during hot day like today!"

Amirul, "Quite embarassing when there was no customers....but was very happy when almost everything was sold in the end."

Haziq, "Too much hard work!! I prefer to be a photographer!"

Angah, "Penat tapi seronok!!"

They did well, not only at the stall but also at home by helping with the preparation.

Our deal was that they got to keep the profits....as it turned out, I hope they will keep the exprience and the joy of it all. There were not much financial gain at all...hehehe!

But at the supermarket last night, I did reward them with Baskin Robin ice-cream!

cantik rumah tuan CG siap ada swimming pool menyejukkan pemandangan.

sempat berposing dengan Mr Fnd! The cowboy hat is very functional in the summer heat! Baju sama biru, menu lain2! hehehe.pic from Din.

The second Bazaar was as Meriah as the first one. There were definitely more stalls and also more foods! Malaysians did not just visited the Bazaar for foods but also for meeting and catching up with friends. Many were seen mixing and socializing long after the buying were done. As one of the organizers, it was satisfying to see happiness on peoples' faces.
please also read the story told by Imeirda, here.
Pictures tell more accurate stories than words.....
di atas...icecream malaysia jualan Mat Ju & Puan shiela hot favourite untuk menghilangkan dahaga! Di bawah, gerai NikEiyda menjual laksam!! Bestttttt hingga makansatu nak lagi!!!
Di atas dua pasangan pengusaha gerai dari Kelantan...Mat Ju dan isteri Puan Shiela tokey nasi dagang, dan Rusdi dan Puan Mas penjual nasi kerabu.
Di atas ayam percik dari gerai Wan Azmi/Fahimi & the geng dan di bawah, puyuh goring pandan dari gerai arabica-x aluya!
Gambar di atas, finally time to count the money!! bersiap untuk tutup gerai!!
Banyak lagi gambar dari lensa imran di sini, dan dari abdul halim di sini.
Dari Din pula di sini
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